One a scale of 10, I think this one’s a 15…
For Sir honesty is expected its a non negotiable. At first it sounds easy but he means in all things.
Until you have put aside the masks you show the world how can you earn his respect or give your loyalty?
In some ways it’s the hardest part of submission being vulnerable even with the parts of you it reveals are not your best qualities.
Hard yes, scary definitely, worth it? Yes if you are going to grow.
My friend, slave2766, has written something of a postscript which amplifies the wisdom it takes to understand and live the true power exchange dynamic. Read his words carefully.
Hallmark is missing out on a boat-load of money…
Want to take a guess as to how many of my inferiors have chosen to walk away and never see me again when they fucked up and I was going to give them a red ass?
Cruel would be just sending a boy away if he wasn’t worshiping fast enough or performing his duties to my satisfaction. Letting them stay and learn is a kindness and calling someone a “cruel bastard” for giving an inferior a second chance makes you sound like an idiot.
Sir….you said it best !
Making it Real - IV
There’s a point during the enslavement process - a very crucial point - when the slave realizes that his fantasy isn’t a fantasy any more – it’s real. The slave has no clothes, no rights, and no choice over what will happen to him. All decisions are in the hands of hs Master.
The Top needs to be sensitive to this. The boy has spent weeks, or months, or years, obsessing on this moment, jerking and spurting and wishing desperately for it to happen, and now it’s become a reality. This moment, the most intensely hot for you both, is when the Top must retain utter control, staying levelheaded in the face of the utterly lost and overwhelmed sub in His hands. The slave has given up all rights, all decisions, all control. The Top owns the situation, the boy, and the future. Fucking. Devastating. Moment. Treasure it, and make the most of it. It will not return.
I’m often asked by other Masters, Mistresses and would-be Doms what it takes to be a good dominant.
This is always a tough question to answer. I always feel that the best Doms are the ones who allow themselves to make mistakes and a lot you can only really learn through experience.
One of the…